My first born was in a routine by 2 weeks I really struggled with my 2nd as he spent his first week in scbu but 14 weeks in and we are there 1 week of full routine bed by 8.30 and down all night untill 7.30 ... with a feed or 2 of course ... but anyway I'm writing this to tell all u mummies out there don't stress it will happen just persevere! Lol x