feel shit today 😭 and we have a name for our little girl.. isabella lynda louise... but i wanna change it to bella…

feel shit today 😭 and we have a name for our little girl.. isabella lynda louise... but i wanna change it to bella louise.. but i dont think OH will like it and nor will his family.. plus lynda is my sisters name and i had already told her the name 😏 i dont know.. will i be an arsehole for changing it??