Need some advice! I've been talking to a guy I've known for a few years. The first week went great! Then he started talking to me less and less and I no longer get good morning texts. I have been the one to start the conversation for the last 2 weeks and I'm tired of it. So the last week or so, I just stopped texting him. And he's texts me every few days asking why I'm not talking to him. I told him I got tired of always being the one to start the conversation. And even then, I'd only get MAYBE 3 words out of him at a time. But his excuse EVERY SINGLE TIME is "sorry, I'm tired".... like seriously?! I'm a single mom working a full time job, I'm CONSTANTLY tired. But I ALWAYS made time to talk to him. What should I do?
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@fearfullynwonderfullymadeline, thank you. I've decided to just move on. Especially after last night. He got drunk and decided to drive to my house at 3am revving his truck for like 30 minutes trying to get me to come out. I wouldn't cause he was being an immature idiot. He drinks every weekend and I told him if we were to get together that he'd have to stop. Clearly he wasn't trying. I don't want that crap around my son so I'm done with him.
I went through the same thing with a friend of mine. Except after I gave birth to my son... he dropped off.. I eventually just focused solely on my son because my friends lack of communication pushed me away. My friend was talking to someone else and I didn't know it. I came to peace with it by telling myself if he understood my worth and how amazing I am, he would've been more understanding of the situation at hand... I have faith the man meant for me will come around. I'm a single mom, I don't have time for games, pettiness, or selfish men. I hope your friend either gets it together for you, or you see the true colors of the relationship and make the best decision for you and your family.
@ashmichelle1, I personally know what you're saying. I'm not telling you to settle or not to settle ... but I will say I completely understand....being alone is harder for some and not so much for others .. but I hope that you can have everything you deserve and more .... ❤️
@dtownga.kg, @amanley081690, @elijahsmomma, I'm just so tired of being alone!! I just wanna be happy for once but I know I shouldn't just settle for anyone.
If it's this soon into the "relationship" is it worth it? Seems stressful and it's barely the beginning! 🙈🙈 but again, it's up to you & how you feel for him!
Do you really want this added stress? If he wants to be with you he would be texting or calling you. If he isn't making an effort I wouldn't waste my time. Either way, I hope it works out!
@ashmichelle1, trust your gut.. Valentines is right around the corner too.. is he planning anything.. it's a challenge to carve out time but when someone is important you make time.. I hope 🤞🏽 you and him get time together and a chance to figure this all out
We haven't been able to hang out. A lot has been going on. But we were gunna hang out Saturday. I asked him several times if he was serious about us and he said yes but that's it. @dtownga.kg,
@ashmichelle1, I think anyone reading would wonder if you two are able to physically see each other versus texting ..maybe it would help.. but it's frustrating when it feels like you're doing all the work and your significant other is "too tired" to respond ... I would ask him directly if he has interest in the relationship because he is not showing it by your standards and needs ...
@kambam, what do you mean? I was planning on hanging out with him Saturday evening.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
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Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I've only been a mom 6 months.. but my whole train of thought has completely changed! But first and foremost, I know when making any decision to trust my gut instinct. I think you made the right decision!!