I don't why I bother sometimes, so last week hubby went behind my back and met up with an old "friend" of his, (a girl who I've never got on with and used to go to school with) he always said he fancied her and he always winds me up about her because he knows I can't stand her, I've told him to get rid of her and he's blocked her on fb and WhatsApp, but things haven't been right since I happened to find out, we had a row this morning just as we were off out for lunch with his parents and he says "are you going out, wearing that?" leggings and nice top, he kicked off saying I hadn't made much of an effort, I got annoyed and said would you rather I not go at all, because he'd been horrible to me all morning, he turned around and said "I couldn't f***ing care" so I slammed a few doors and he called me a c**t and to f off, I've just tried to give him a hug/kiss and apologise for slamming the doors, thinking he might apologise for being a tool but no, he told me to stop being a dick and to get off him as hes not a cuddly person, he's just gone out to take his daughter back to her mums and basically blanked me, e wont be back now until midnight as he is off to his mates for the evening, I'm so annoyed and needed a rant
sorry for the long post 😠😠😠
he used to fancy her, she's let herself go to the dogs and he assures me he doesn't fancy her anymore, he just likes to wind me up about her, which he always gets a reaction
I'm OK thanks hun, it'll all be fine tomorrow, when it's good it's great, but every now and then he throws his toys out of his pram
i know its awful but it sounds like he just dont care n saying stuff like " u know wat to do " is like hes pushing u to go so it saves him the hassle.id of flipped by now x
I was so hurt and angry, he met up with he just before Christmas as well and I had no idea, but if I kick off he just turns around "you have a choice, you're not being held here against your will, the door opens for you to leave of you're not happy"
@heavenscent83 Stop reacting to it hun...two can play the same game...but best not to stoop to his level. If it was me...id just leave him xx