My 21st birthday is in April and I have no idea what I'm gonna wear! 🙈 I don't wanna wear anything…

My 21st birthday is in April and I have no idea what I'm gonna wear! 🙈 I don't wanna wear anything too slutty, but I wanna look sexy because I'll be out partying without my son (for the first time since my last birthday and I still had some baby weight.) Can y'all post pics of what you wore for big nights out without the baby? TIA!