Keep your sanity... take it one day at a time and don't put your self on their level ( that's what they want ) and most of all.. Don't forget to breathe!
@blessedmommyof5, I've been dealing with her for almost 5 years and it never gets easier. There is always drama with her. We have my bonus kid 3/4 of the time so yea I play the biggest role in his life. But she tries to take us to court every year and every year she gets less and less time. She has three kids all together doesn't work. Lives off the government. And has no ambition to be anything. Let me add that she's a social media mom so she wants to say she's this and that but we all know her, it's a small town. It's just sad. I recently found out there when her ex and her got into a fist fight a few months back dcfs go Involved and our boy was ordered to see a counselor by the case worker because we let him be there since it was her bday. Ugh. Well she is telling him to say stuff to the counselor and lie to us and the counselor so she can try and get us in trouble and I my attny hasn't got back with me about advice in how to take this new info but I'm freaking out. I mean our house is stable, but why would it be ok to tell your 7 year old to lie. I was to approach her about it but I'm picking my battles. This one will come out when it's time appropriate. I'm just so mind blown and confused.
Oh honey I truly feel ya!! Almost like the situation I am in... and trust me the "media mom " is the worst! They get on Facebook and they are the best parent( s ) ever.. burns my ass up!! I actually have 3 ( 5 all together but two are mine ) they are family their biological parents can party and run the roads pass my house 100x a day but tell the kiddos that because of lack of transportation and working all the time they can't come visit... we live in a small town as well everyone knows everyone but still pisses me off the way these kids are treated ya know?!? Now as far as the youngest.. she may had given birth but we have had her her entire life.. people doesn't know this bio mom even has a daughter.. the baby is almost 2 for crying out loud and doesn't know her as her mom... and both parents swear that the baby looks just like us...
Who could do that!!!!
Lord I am so sorry for ranting...
The one thing I've learned from all of this, ( and it will help you too )
Give them enough rope.. they will hang them selves!
@blessedmommyof5, rant away!! Heck I'll listen 👂. At least those babies have you!! I'm just so over the constant drama with her..it's literally non stop. And the only one suffer is my bonus kid. She is teaching him to be a liar. How is that ok??
It's not ok at all.. Karma is bad and I solely believe in it.. She will get hers one day for putting that child through what she is.. until then like I said before, take it one day at a time.. try having your SO to talk to her. What does he/she say about this situation?
Heather Jarnigan ·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Keep your sanity... take it one day at a time and don't put your self on their level ( that's what they want ) and most of all.. Don't forget to breathe!
Kayla Johnson ·
Мама троих детей
@blessedmommyof5, I've been dealing with her for almost 5 years and it never gets easier. There is always drama with her. We have my bonus kid 3/4 of the time so yea I play the biggest role in his life. But she tries to take us to court every year and every year she gets less and less time. She has three kids all together doesn't work. Lives off the government. And has no ambition to be anything. Let me add that she's a social media mom so she wants to say she's this and that but we all know her, it's a small town. It's just sad. I recently found out there when her ex and her got into a fist fight a few months back dcfs go Involved and our boy was ordered to see a counselor by the case worker because we let him be there since it was her bday. Ugh. Well she is telling him to say stuff to the counselor and lie to us and the counselor so she can try and get us in trouble and I my attny hasn't got back with me about advice in how to take this new info but I'm freaking out. I mean our house is stable, but why would it be ok to tell your 7 year old to lie. I was to approach her about it but I'm picking my battles. This one will come out when it's time appropriate. I'm just so mind blown and confused.
Heather Jarnigan ·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Oh honey I truly feel ya!! Almost like the situation I am in... and trust me the "media mom " is the worst! They get on Facebook and they are the best parent( s ) ever.. burns my ass up!! I actually have 3 ( 5 all together but two are mine ) they are family their biological parents can party and run the roads pass my house 100x a day but tell the kiddos that because of lack of transportation and working all the time they can't come visit... we live in a small town as well everyone knows everyone but still pisses me off the way these kids are treated ya know?!? Now as far as the youngest.. she may had given birth but we have had her her entire life.. people doesn't know this bio mom even has a daughter.. the baby is almost 2 for crying out loud and doesn't know her as her mom... and both parents swear that the baby looks just like us...
Who could do that!!!!
Lord I am so sorry for ranting...
The one thing I've learned from all of this, ( and it will help you too )
Give them enough rope.. they will hang them selves!
Kayla Johnson ·
Мама троих детей
@blessedmommyof5, rant away!! Heck I'll listen 👂. At least those babies have you!! I'm just so over the constant drama with her..it's literally non stop. And the only one suffer is my bonus kid. She is teaching him to be a liar. How is that ok??
Heather Jarnigan ·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
It's not ok at all.. Karma is bad and I solely believe in it.. She will get hers one day for putting that child through what she is.. until then like I said before, take it one day at a time.. try having your SO to talk to her. What does he/she say about this situation?