My boyfriend is moving in with me in a few weeks and I am so scared. I love him so much but I am…

Then tell him you're not ready? Lol

@brendabravo93, I have. But he wants to be here with baby. I have had the conversation maybe 2 or 3 times. And he just seems so down when he isn't with us. It's sad.

living with a guy is challenging, I never lived with a guy until I was engaged, and baby you will have nights when you want to change the locks on his ass... lol goodluck have fun and give each other space!!

@courtneye26, what about him moving in makes you feel like your not ready?

@firemanswife, he doesn't believe in space (abandonment issues) so that's going to be challenging

@brendabravo93, I think the thing that scares me is that during my pregnancy we argued a lot we could barely go one day together without arguing. Recently I had a talk with him and was able to get a lot off my chest which made me feel better about us and we haven't been arguing as much. However, I'm afraid that if we get in the same space for a long period of time we will be right back where we were during my pregnancy. Also it's a lot of pressure being responsible for our son and for him as well. And I say that because I am the only one with a car and a drivers license. So I would have to get the baby where he needs to go then him to work and then myself and then pick everyone up in the evenings. I am afraid I'll feel like I'm raising two kids and not one.

@courtneye26, that does sound like a lot to think about. But trust your gut, whatever you think is right is going to be the best option for you. He should also be understanding of your needs.