my baby has days like that. even tho she doesn't like being swaddled, I'd do it anyway so she recognizes it's "sleep time" (I only swaddle when she's ready to sleep) then I'd rock or sway her while making a shushing sound or use an app that makes that sound. I learned this from the 5 S's technique from the book, The Happiest Baby on the Block. it took time and practice but it worked for me!
My son was like that too. I felt like I could never put him down. I had to go back to work though when he was 6 weeks and my husband took over. He loves my husband but wasn't as clingy so he learned how to sleep on his own cause I wasn't around to snuggle as much.
Maybe try giving her to someone else for a short while and have that someone not hold her the entire time but perhaps put her in a bouncer or such?
That's how my 2nd was this time around too!🙁 Give her some time and maybe she'll like it. My son started to like it barely a couple of weeks ago. Try laying her down and just patting her chest/belly to see if that kind of puts her back to sleep.