tmi but how long do i have to wait to have intercourse after having my baby? it's been s month now..

I believe it's around 6 weeks but if you feel good go for it lol

My Docter recommended 6-8 weeks. I felt ready around 5 weeks and attempted it, but it was uncomfortable and started to bleed again.

I would wait until your Docter clears you. You could have no bleeding and still have some healing up to do (that's what happened to me)

@miller76, yeah i think my ob said 6 weeks too, but i feel ok lol i'm just scared to.. lol

You should be ok just tell him to be gentle

6 weeks is whats recommended. I didn't even come close to waiting 6 weeks. I waited 11 days and I was fine.

you should be fine but make sure to be careful , it might hurt and use lube trust me it helps

@babynessa, omg really? lol ok so then i should be fine then!

@villanuevaleesa, thanks 😊

Yeah lol and I had three stitches. I was fine just take it slow at first. @vanessarazo

Ah I waited 9 weeks but I had a third degree tear with 20+ stitches

@babynessa, i'm not too sure how many stitches i had but it's healed now

@jessicasnelson, ouch!! ugh i'm so nervous lol

I was about 7 weeks postpartum, probably could have much sooner but I wasn't ready emotionally. Just go slow and talk to your partner. I've heard some ladies say they needed lubricant so keep that in mind.