feeling sad, which makes me want to eat... really wanting firehouse subs and krispy kreme.🙁

Is there anything in particular that makes you feel sad?

yes. my husband got a vasectomy today against my wishes. @dreamermom

@kmharr3, that's super frustrating! I would feel so betrayed! I'm so sorry he did that without talking to you about it! 😓

I'm more mad about it because I haven't even given birth yet. like what if something goes wrong? @dreamermom

@kmharr3, exactly! We always hope that nothing like that will happen but the reality of the situation is that it does happen... and SIDS are a real thing! We don't wish that on anyone... but again the fact is, it does happen to some families! My husband and I are not planning to have anymore after this... but our plan is to wait at least a year before he has a vasectomy done! Because heaven forbid something happened, we would want another option!

@kmharr3, on the bright side, with technology today it is easier than ever to reverse it... just extra pain for him! But I would not feel bad for him! 😏

lol I wouldn't feel bad either, I'm not very sympathetic towards him right now. I just wanted to wait a few months to a year to make sure we really didn't want anymore, because I have been wanting to try again for a boy

@kmharr3, yeah I understand that! You are justified in your frustration... just try to enjoy what little time you have left with your pregnancy

I'll try thanks... @dreamermom