I honestly don't even want to associate with people or answer my phone half of the time. I would be perfectly happy with…

I honestly don't even want to associate with people or answer my phone half of the time. I would be perfectly happy with just hanging out with my baby girls every day and having my little family only. I feel like I'm constantly going to have to argue with people to protect my girls. My husbands dad is a severe alcoholic so we told him not to show up here drunk & we'd also like to have notice before he comes. So what does he do? Just shows up out of nowhere drunk as hell trying to be near the babies. Like uh no. & then I go to my moms earlier, just for it to smell like marijuana STRONG! I don't feel comfortable with my baby girls being around any of that crap nor do I understand why they would even try. It makes no sense. I just wanna shelter my girls from everyone at this point!