my sex drive went away after i had my daughter but it came back like 3- 4 months after birth

@breloya, hmmmmm

Don't hate yourself. These are some things people don't tell you about with having a baby. You're probably not really falling out of love with your husband. I thought these same things when my daughter was younger. It also didn't help that I felt so alone. I had to stay at home all day taking care of her, he got to go out to work, hang out with friends, etc. But as the months passed, everything became a bit easier. I started feeling that spark with him, not just with sex, but with everything. Because I didn't even want him to touch me or be around me. If his leg brushed against mine, I got annoyed. It was bad. It's so much better now and it was slowly getting better after about 3/4 months. The chance of you truly falling out of love with him are kind of low. If you truly feel so, you guys can go to counseling together. ❤

@breloya, I have been faking and it's making me hate myself... like is it possible to fall out of love with your husband and fall in love with your baby?!

I figured. That's what my husband said as well. It's really hard. You can keep explaining to him that it's normal and you can also fake it... sometimes, that spark may come back for a little.

@breloya, I try but he doesn't understand he keeps taking it as in not attracted to him anymore

That's the exact same feelings I had. It felt like a chore and I even questioned whether I wanted to be with him anymore. Give it a couple of months and talk to him as well. Your body went through a lot. It should return to normal.

I just feel horrible bc he want to seems more like a chore for me

You just had a baby your body might not be back in sync yet