Girl do it! Believe me when i tell you, a couple needs "couple time". Have a night to eachother if theres someome you trust to watch your baby. It doesnt have to be every weekend either, but its important to spend that time together. We're parenting 24/7, sometimes its really needed. We (my SO & i) disconnected on so many levels. Along the list of reasons why was this. We were mommy & daddy all the time and kind of just forgot about eachother. Try to still have your date nights like before. Just bc we're parents does not mean you can't be the couple you once were.

I feel the same way. We haven't had a date night for two years almost! It's hard to just trust anyone with your baby.

I feel the same way. My husband is always wanting to get a baby sitter but I can't do it. Let a stranger watch my baby no thank you. I'm too paranoid.

@p0790, we do too, but it would be nice to be able to get out of the house and do something together for once

My husband and I, have us time whenever the baby falls asleep, wed put her to bed early, watch a show and eat pizza