Both boys are screaming and tired. I say I need to go to the bathroom. My husband says to take Delos…

Oh I've been there! I'm there a lot of days actually! I'm a stay at home mom so my boyfriend (the father of my babies) thinks I just sit on my ass all day and do nothing and then expects me to do it all and wait on him hand and foot! I feel your pain girl!

You need a break. If he hasn't helped you to take some kind of load off your shoulders he needs to start. He needs to be a good man and husband. That is ridiculous. Especially his damn mom. You do more work than he'll ever do in his life. Being a mom is a full time job without pay except in full diapers, puke, and cries. We work harder than men. They're the ones who pushed our babies in us and we work our asses off carrying them for 9 months then push them out only to take care of them 24/7 giving our 100% of our attention and necessities. In another world we only get 1% for ourselves. Men don't have to deal with the constant chores as we women do. Now I will admit those single fathers who also have jobs and having to be a full time mom I do have respect for. They understand. But those who are acting like your man need to back off. They're lucky enough we don't snap their necks when we finally had enough of their complaining on how we just stay at home doing nothing and other shit.

he normally isn't like this. idk what his deal was. I wish I could get a break. I can't even get a break long enough to pee by myself most times. I normally wait until nap time to pee or take him in with me. Then I have to fight him off the tp, the drawers, the cat food, etc. I still go insane in that small space with him. I love my husband I do and he is normally so damn amazing and a great daddy but he was just off last night. I know he was stressed from both boys screaming and being inconsolable but damn I deal with it daily and don't have anybody else. Very rarely do I get/ask for help from my mil cause she already does so much for us.

@jerin