so I have to vent...my fiance has his mother's maiden name, they want us to get his name switched to…

Well what are you going to do about your other sons name... that would upset me for that reason only

we would have to get it changed too. @dionnetrashawn99 just a huge headache for no reason and getting stuff replaced. I told my husband he would be the one going to get new birth certificate and social security cards

Like you said that's to much of a headache however if he has a good reason than you might have to consider it since marriage is about compromising and you two are GETTING married so hear him out

@dionnetrashawn99 well he has a few weeks before this baby comes. lol. if he don't get it all taken care of before he comes it's going to be even harder. it's just like all our friends know him by his current last name too. idk it's a little weird to me.

Well does he have a good reason for wanting it changed?

@dionnetrashawn99 just that the name is his bloodline....but like I said his parents never see our son and I'm sure nothing would be any different with the new baby.

Giiiiirl people do tooo much sometimes. No u should be mad lol. Sheesh

@madukes yes thank you. we want heard from them in months and they called today and asked my due date and was like well yall need to take care of that....Um why didn't you. you had 18 years.......

he went all his life without changing it why change it.now?

@haleyjordan825 exactly....my fiance is 28!!! they just want the name to be carried on because my fiance was his only son. but it should've been important to them then. I mean his parents have always been together IDK why he had his moms last name anyways.

no. family always wants to come out of the woodwork and try to have a say in something. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

I'm trying not too we went thru this with my first pregnancy and we never got it changed but it's so annoying. @kobikolemom

I understand. I went through some stuff with my bf during my first pregnancy and going through it all over again. as well. I get it. it's annoying. everything will be ok. if he didn't do it the first time, he's not going too this time. and most likely he isn't going too. bc your first child has his last name now. so why change.

@brookiecookie that's weird but tell them if they want his name changed they can pay for him and the first boys name to be changed

oh yeah they are def paying for it since its such an importance to them, because if they would've taken care of it ages ago we wouldn't have to pay anything so I'm not fixing to now. especially with a new baby on the way that money can go towards a lot. @haleyjordan825

I'm just glad all you ladies agree it's a bit much.

@brookiecookie ,exactly and you wouldn't want to change the dad's name and the new baby's name be the new last name and have your other sons last name stay the same

Yes maam it is a bit much.