Idk if it's just me but it literally bugs me when some asks me "do you let your boyfriend do…

Idk if it's just me but it literally bugs me when some asks me "do you let your boyfriend do .........?" Or "does your boyfriend let you do.........?". First off we are both adults and will do as we please. Second we have so much respect for each other to not do anything to ruin that respect or trust. Also we are so open with one another and don't give one another a reason to ever wonder. I will never tell my SO what and what not to do cause at the end of the day he is his own person and he knows me well enough to know what and what not to do on his own. & vise versa