so… I get home from San Diego after three days and my boyfriend has been here the whole time and he…

so… I get home from San Diego after three days and my boyfriend has been here the whole time and he didn't put his sons bedding and dryer until three days after it sitting in the washer… I could smell mildew but he said that he couldn't. I get home and he wants to go on a hike with his friend and leave his boys here with me... Without discussing it with me... And telling his son he's going to go to the Acro/Trampoline with me. I thought we'd do stuff together as a family... But now he's all butt hurt that I brought it up and that I think it's fucked up that he won't go watch his kid.