I love my husband but I don't love his job he is literally never home and I can never get in contact…

:( what do you do?

I'm a financial consultant at a bank so I have normal people hours I try to keep busy with my kids or just going out with friends occasionally but it doesn't replace that loneliness at all @cassielee, 😪

I know the feeling ❤ just have to keep your head up and remind yourself he does it all for his family.

I try to tell myself that all the time but at what point do you sacrifice and actually spend time with your family. Sometimes a break is a good thing @emily526,

:( does he know you feel this way? Hope he sees you need that extra time with him right now.

I kno the feeling!! ugh. hate it

@wisky80wifey I agree completely. Maybe try letting him know his family needs him around sometimes too. There always has to be a balance and that goes for everything!

We've talked about it and he always says he is doing it for us and I understand but at the same time I feel like because he is so buried in work he doesn't even see our marriage is a mess and it's making me become very distant @cassielee,

And he doesn't even sense the distance I bet... Ugh. I'm sorry you are going through this I hope he wakes up.. I see you love him a lot I'm sorry you are hurting

It's so exhausting and everyone expects you to be the strong one when your just miserable inside. I'd rather just not deal with it all together and we just co parent @heatherlg88,

I'm a military wife and for me it's not easy but I love my man too much to even think about letting go . I signed up for this. and it never gets easy hun . don't give up if you both love eachother❤

My boyfriend is the academy and we're expecting our first baby so I know how that is 😫

No fair this is just the beginning too! I completely get it.

The academy days weren't so bad but once they hit the street that's who they belong to smh @aridlt,