Ok ladies I have a question I recently signed my papers to get my tubes tied when I have my son. My…
Ok ladies I have a question I recently signed my papers to get my tubes tied when I have my son. My husband feels that I shouldn't have done that because we are newly weds Nov 7 this is our second child another boy. He has a 6 year old boy with another girl our son will be 2 March 6 and we are scheduled for this baby March 14. I will turn 27 July 19th and he will be 32 July 24th. I feel that we dont need more am I tripping ladies?
noreen·
you are both r still young am 33 I will get mines done but this is my 3 and and this will be my hubby 4th but I really can't go through pregnancy again because I get really sick .
Heather·
I would wait. I'm 28 with my first & hubby is 35. I think I want atleast 2 more. lol I would think about it a little longer if I were u...maybe pray on it. talk to ur hubby more about it.
Malika Walker·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
He wants 1 or 2 more but I dont see myself having anymore kids nor being pregnant again. Our first son he was in prison so he missed everything he is home and can help with everything now but I dont think my body can do through another pregnancy men dont understand how we feel. It takes a toll on us.
Malika Walker·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
@heatherlg88 I tried talking to him and he's just like I want more kids and ima tell your doctor. So now I dont want him at appointments cause I dont want him to tell my doctor that.
Heather·
lol yeah. well just think about it a bit longer. you do what's right for you.
Kelly Lieu·
Мама сына-младенца
I would say don't unless it's mutual. That could cause a ton of issues for y'all if you do it. Just stay on bc and be smart about safe sex if you truly don't want anymore until he's okay with the idea. And don't let anyone tell you you're too young!! I'm 22 and my husband is getting a vasectomy for his birthday this year. We got our one and only baby and are extremely happy
Malika Walker·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
@kellyl22 Thats what I'm scared of that it will never be mutual its 5 of them his sister has 9 kids. I'm the only child I said I was never having kids I feel 2 boys is enough but I dont understand his logic.
Jasmine Cleveland·
@mrsgates15 I'd do what you feel is right whether he likes it or not. men don't go thro it they don't know what it's like to push a baby out or have one surgically removed so I mean... should they really get a say so? in my opinion no they shouldn't.
Malika Walker·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
@mrs.desiraec Right this will be my second csection and this pregnancy has took a toll on my body I cant do this again
Jasmine Cleveland·
@mrsgates15 pregnancy is hard. way harder than I thought it would be. men just don't understand everything we go through.
Brandi Kennedy ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I went to watch the video and the nurse told me not to do it cause most women that do it at young age usually regret it in the future and me personally I don't like birth control cause it problems with your female parts up etc but my option don't count at the end of the day your going to do what ever you want and only you knows what best for you it's your body girl he will just have to understand that it's hard being pregnant and dealing with kids but men don't always look at it like we do
Negra👑·
В ожидании первенца
Why don't you try IUD instead
Malika Walker·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
My momma says it hurts so she has me scared