Opinions ladies: I have a "best friend" that complains that we never hang out. I invite her to do…

Shes bad at REMEMBERING to read texts....always an excuse

well you need to decide if your going to keep putting up with it or let it go........We all have choices in life obviously she's making her choices...Good luck!!!!!

Have you tried talking to her I mean there's no sense in allowing her to continue doing the same thing. if she's your real friend she'll understand where your coming from.

i did a few months ago. bc i even planned a combo birthday for her and my husband since their bdays are the same day. she didn't show up. It's like she gets pissed at me like I don't invite her anywhere when I do with plenty of time to get a sitter. But she never invites me anywhere like camping in august. She said "oh i didnt think you'd like camping". I always invite her to stuff and that way if she doesn't like it then AT LEAST she was invited @mommietotwo @tinyhints I think I'm done bc it's pissing me off too much

or any time she needs a shoulder to lean on she is over here crying or complaining about her fiancé while I'm working at home. Last time I needed her in September for a bad argument she bitched about it bc she had plans the next morning.

maybe she's jealous that your pregnant idk but have you asked her what is the problem? Or just leave the whole situation all honey always remember your to blessed to be stressed

@twinpeanut, I have literally ONE friend that lives near me the others are all 10+ hours away... that is exactly how she is! 😒🙄 and when it comes to watching kids for each other... I literally watch hers like 10 times compared to her 1 time! I wanted to do a date night with my husband on his birthday... asked her to watch my daughter that day, she said just let me know when you get it planned... and she bought Tickets to a Lego event that day... said well I'm sure we won't be there all day! I can watch her later that night I'll call you when we get home... SO planning my husbands birthday is going to have to revolve around whenever she decides to come home?!? How shitty is that... Then the next text was can you watch my kids feb 4th?!? 😡😤 I love her kids, so I will probably take them, but it pisses me off! So I know exactly where you are!

She plans to have more kids after shes married, again. She has a son already. She says she's busy or this or that. I told her her save the dates were nice, no answer. I said happy new year, no answer. I check on her to make sure shes alive and she answers. LIKE WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU ughh @tinyhints

i hate it. its so uneven @dreamermom

she got mad at me that i didn't tell her i went to court to get married. but i literally told no one. Not even my mom.

I'd just let it go. Ur better off not having her cuz it seems like she is using u for her gains only. If she starts to complain about nvr hanging out again tell her that she makes the plans and effort cuz it shouldn't always be on u. I had a friend like this as well and when I finally gave up it was a huge relief to me cuz I was no longer invested in something toxic like that

i agree. inviting her to the spa for my birthday was my last attempt. She was supposed to come to a convention in november and never showed. i felt like i looked like an asshole bc i waited for her and wanted to introduce her to other friends. Like not even a call or text to say she wouldn't be able to make it so I'm not looking like an idiot @lillyb

Cut her off...you'll feel better...!!! Don't stress over a friend that doesn't consider you only when she apparently needs you!!!!

@viiviian.aiide i will, thanks

GM, I agree with the other ladies let it go friends like that you don't need......Enjoy your day luv

thanks honey @tinyhints