My father in law is overstepping bounds again.... He just begged my husband for us and him to take…

My father in law is overstepping bounds again.... He just begged my husband for us and him to take Delos to the park. First off it has been raining for like 3 days. Everything is wet and wouldn't be fun. Second it's nap time. Third it's my husbands only day off that we don't have doctor appointments. Four we have errands we need to run that we wanted done before now but haven't gotten to because of the kids. Then my fil texts my husband back saying we need to make excuses to do things not to not do them. Like don't ask if we can do something and get pissed because we have other shit to do. He's been helping you the past few days. Let him have time with his family. I'm having a hard time adjusting to a toddler and a baby and I need my husband.