*Help* Sorry it's kinda long.. In all honesty I created this in order yo be anonymous and hopefully…

*Help*

Sorry it's kinda long..

In all honesty I created this in order yo be anonymous and hopefully get some advice:

I have been with my husband(father of my 3 kids) for 10 years, married for 3. Everything has been perfect, we never argued or even disagreed. Constantly laughing. Unil recently. We have been living at his parents for the past 6 years (parents were going through a divorce dad needed help) We had our own place before (apartment) moved to his parents house (2 bedroom) anyway Father in law promised us the house this and that.. everything was great since dad was never home the house was basically ours.. It felt like home. Until 2 years ago when husband's brother and whole family had to move in.. We agreed (husband & I) that it would be temporary. Just to help them out, anyway it's been 2 years. I cannot stand living here anymore so we started looking for an apartment of our own again.. but lately my husband has been more worried about material things (he makes a good living and can afford it) but I felt that it is stopping him from concentrating on our priorities. We've been arguing a lot lately.. I feel like he is constantly on his phone looking for more cars to buy (we have great cars already even a 2016) but he is not content. He asked me to stop apartment searching for a couple months because it's stressful. But I am going crazy sharing a 2 bedroom house with 10 other people! Everytime we argue he tries to my make it better by buying things (not even flowers like shoes and makeup) I would actually just love some simple $6 cheapy flowers! Anyways I think am done.. I think all this stress and arguing has pulled us apart.. We can't even hold a 5 minute conversation anymore if it isn't about buying cars, shoes or his job.. My dad passed away but last night I was praying that he would give me a sign on what to do... This guy is my best friend, he is my everything!! But I feel done, I am debating on calling up my mother this afternoon to arrange a pick this weekend.. I am leaving everything here (my clothes, shoes, makeup even my car) just to prove to him that this money is tearing us apart.. I need advice...