We need to have an apartment open up soon! My father in law is an inconsiderate asshole. He starts all these projects…

We need to have an apartment open up soon! My father in law is an inconsiderate asshole. He starts all these projects and decides he needs "help". So he asks my husband then tells him what he needs done and makes my husband do it all. I understand he has back issues but if you know it's gonna be too straining on you then don't do the project. Or at least ask Sam if he can do it on his time- not rushing him to do it when you want it done or call it helping. Also don't go banging your damn metal tools in your metal tool box without checking to see if our kid especially our 6 week old is awake or not. He's not a happy baby to begin with. I need to move out of here like now!!! I cannot control my anger with this man any longer! So sorry for the rant. Thanks for taking time to read my anger.