I'm pregnant with my first baby, i always pictured a family and enjoying pregnancy, especially with…
I'm pregnant with my first baby, i always pictured a family and enjoying pregnancy, especially with my first born. My baby's father and I came to terms we just can't be together but will co parent. I'm in no desire to fix things anyway due to horrible verbal abuse that made me question if he even cares for what's in me. Knowing I'm going to be a single mom is hitting me and I can't get out of this sad hole I'm stuck in. Any advice?
Adriana Pope·
Мама сына-младенца
I was in the same predicament and I had to come to term with the fact that we just weren't going to work out. My son is now almost 9 months and we discovered that we actually make great friends for each other. Once we got past the relationship aspect and holding on to what was never going to work, we started to coparent very well and turned into best friends. I know it's hard especially picturing your life a certain way and having it turn out differently but you'll get through it. Just be all you need for your baby
Sophia ·
@zionsmommy0429, thank you. I know the baby is now the main priority. Regardless of what was said, I just find it even harder now getting over someone while having their baby. It's depressing me and taking my joy of being pregnant. How did you do it? Or did you ever?
Paige curran·
Мама четверых детей
Me and my first child's father didn't work out. All we did was argue and honestly just didn't get along as a couple. Best thing we ever did was split and co parent. We were best friends prior to our relationship. And get along better that way. It's better to have separate parents who focus their time on loving the child than two parents that constantly hate each other
Sunny Ribbons ·
Мама дочки-младенца
The best thing you can do for yourself is to start your healing process with a therapist who can help you sort out your feelings. Everything's going to be OK! I know it seems really hard right now, but once you get through your current feelings, you will feel so much better and life will seem so much lighter than it was when you were with him. You are already a great mom because you care so much about yourself and your baby's well-being. Do your best to stay positive and I promise you will see the light at the end of the tunnel.