It can take up to seven years for your hormones to go back to normal after having a baby! Obviously that is an extreme case, but it just goes to show how hard it can be. My sex drive came back after one full year. Gratefully, I have an extremely patient fiancé… Bless his soul.

Everyone is different and for some women it can take a really really long time for your hormones to regulate after giving birth. Those hormones control your sex drive. So, ask your husband to have patience and let him know that you don't have control over when these hormones regulate. Try to do other things for him that remind him how much you love him and really are attracted to him. Such as hold his hand and cuddle and kiss. In time, your hormones will regulate and you will start getting your mojo back. You can always talk to your OB and see what they can do for you.

Not to be cynical here but it's been 2.5 years since my son was born and I STILL have no sex drive.. and he used to have to pry me off him!! I just have no interest in it anymore..

It honestly takes some time. We started again around 8 weeks postpartum and it was really difficult for me because I am a SAHM and was tired all the time. We slowly eased into it and really had to romantically connect first. It isn't going to go back to normal right away. It can take up to a year for our hormones to regulate again.

I start with masturbating. Then sex

I read "sheet music" a while back and the author said that the best way to start having more sex is to have sex. Even if you don't feel like it, after a time or two, you will start picking up momentum. Take a bath, shave, whatever makes you feel as sexy as possible. I know it's hard, but your marriage is worth it!!