@rockysmommy... I'm 31 and he's 44... lol... My ex is 38 and he still hasn't grown up yet.... I'm beginning to think it's just part of the plan... Meet lots of pieces of shits along the way to arriving at the destination of "as good as it's gonna get"... lol

@teradarby18, older? My ex was a few months younger and my current boyfriend is 5 years older. Lol. Seems older is better for us haha

I completely understand... My ex was the same way. Insecurity at it's finest... I'm finally with an older MAN now who genuinely loves me & I get to be the beautiful disaster that I really am!!

@teradarby18, so I'm not really used to someone being this way.

@teradarby18, my ex was very controlling and made me feel terrible for clothes I wore. Like leggings, he called me a whore. If I wore my shirt tucked in, I was just trying to show off my butt and I was a slut for that. He was mentally abusive.

That's how it should be!