How would you react if your SO told you that your basically just a babysitter for our son and nothing more? I clean, do…

I'd probably leave.

is he upset about something?

I slapped him. I feel bad but his words cut me so deep I just didn't know what else to do. I work so hard to take care of my son during the day and also to keep him happy as well. I don't think I overreacted but now I second guessing. @adensmommy2014,

I would be pissed. I would probably leave my husband with my daughter for a week and let him do everything by himself. See what kind of babysitter he is.

Well I was upset bc I asked him to do something for me and he refused. I was very angry so I went to the gym to cool off and came back and tried to have a calm conversation with him and tell him that I do a lot of things for him and so when I ask him to do something he should just do it. And he came back with the comment of that I only take care of my son for 8 hours a day and then right when he gets home I hand my son off to him which is untrue. Sometimes I ask him to hold him or help if I'm trying to do something but I never just pawn my son off to him everyday. My feelings are so hurt @ingridm89

I would take the baby and leave. Or make him leave. Fuck that. You are so much better.

I would do that but then I feel like that could bite me in the ass later @babynessa

I'm thinking of doing that but my dog is at the house and he refuses to help me with the dog which is what we got into a fight over in the first place. I am worried he wouldn't take care of my dog. The only place I can go is my moms and she can't have the dog there and lives an hour away 😞@housfullofgrls,

I wouldve slapped you back, wtf. words are words but you got physical, I would've left YOU. granted his words were hurtful, you have no right

I value your opinion. I was just so hurt in the moment. I break my back everyday to provide for my family and for him to say that crushed me. I know I shouldn't have slapped him but I just wasn't thinking. I was acting on my feelings @queeenb,

totally understandable but how would you feel if he did it to you? I'm sure the outcome would've been way different. you both need to have a serious talk about him being more helpful. I'd be pretty pissed if my husband said that to me too. babies are so demanding, any child under te age of 4 is hard work lol

Unfortunately he has done it to me before. But no reason for me to do it though. We do need to talk but he refuses to listen if it's not what he thinks it's irrelevant. @queeenb,

then this is a situation you should really evaluate. would it be less stressful if you two coparented? you can't live like that. it's unhealthy for you and your babies. happy mommy happy babies

I'm going to think about it overnight and see how I feel in the morning @queeenb, thanks girl. That means a lot ☺@adensmommy2014,

nobody deserves to get slapped. period.

I'd say "if I'm just a babysitter then I quit"

And see how well he can handle things by himself! Exactly. He would be very very lost!

I do everything around the house and for my son on top of taking care of him, and my husband knows damn well that I work my ass off and he can't even handle an hour alone with our son while I'm on the bath because I usually do it all. If your SO doesn't know that you work your butt off, then he's selfish and inconsiderate

He is very selfish. I see more of it everyday and I'm starting to resent him for it @bentleysmomma,