How Do I Cope with Losing My Baby at 16 Weeks?

Having to deliver my baby at 16 weeks is so scary!! Went to the bathroom at work and felt my water bag!! Rushed to the emergency room to find out I'm already 4-5 centimeters dilated and baby will be born today!! Last night they tried everything in there power to push my water bag in but this morning it was exposed again and now I'm 10 centimeters dilated..The hardest day I went through was last year when I lost my baby boy at 19 weeks pregnant.. now to do the same with my baby girl at 16 weeks is killing me deep down inside!! I would never wish this on my worst enemy!! Ugh my heart is broken 😭😭😭😭😭