BIG question! My sister was pregnant with her second and miscarried at 11 weeks. I found out the week after her DNC that…

Ide sit her down and be honest with her. Shes the babys aunt as well so it may upset her if shes left out or finds out later on....it's best to do it now...she may be sad about it because she had a loss but you can be there for her and thats what matters...💖💕💖goodluck hun💖💕💖💕💖

don't tell her just yet ... you're 7 weeks? wait till you're a lol further along, like 12 weeks. she really don't need this blow ... she IS going to take this hard. tell her try again. hope everything goes well.

Well honestly...if she is reacting this way right now....she may still be like that within a week or two if you really think about it.....so ide just tell her now so she has time to let it sink in......

@mrs.a.tart,

She told me the day she found out she was pregnant. We are very close. But I was thinking "ok she got this upset with her sister in law being pregnant and I'm her sister"

I personally know she would be upset if I waited another month or two

@heera,

That's what I was thinking to. Idk , I know what she went through I had a miscarriage with my first and I told her the hardest part was when people announced they were pregnant and when people had their babies. I don't like my family hurting

@genesismommy26, i understand. Unfortunately I've had 3 miscarriages. And i never got over them very quickly. I had an early miscarriage on the third of this month. And I'm still pretty worked up about it. So na, honestly...she may be upset for a while. So unless your guna keep it from your family for a while too then Ide just break it to her gently now and comfort her and let her know your there for her...

@heera, we were wanting to wait til I was 12 weeks to tell family. But I feel like she should know before them. I feel like more respect will be shown for her. Her sister in law just posted on Face book and that's how my sister found out.

Just do what you think is truly right thats all that matters hunn. Remember you know her better than anyone.

@smash6684, they only way for her to find out is me, my best friend doesn't even know yet. I got pregnant the week before she miscarried , so it's not like I knew and then didn't think about her. She said she wants to try again as soon as she can. The doctor cleared her. I was in a way hoping she would get pregnant and then I could say by the way

Just talked to her and she said she is excited and to not be afraid to tell her anything. She said this will give her time to prepare herself for a little one!