omg my mom is getting on my nevers all because I said my husband is going to take care of our…

omg my mom is getting on my nevers all because I said my husband is going to take care of our daughter if I have to go the night before he would bring her back to the house to sleep and then he would come back with her and if i end up having ella he will drop her off with my mom and then get lilly after she said he should be with me and she has never not seen anyone leave there wife alone. I rather him be with lilly and I am fine with that i get a little​ me time before​ baby we had this planed for a while now and it is better for lilly so she doesn't just think we don't love her and we are leaving her.