12 more days until my c-section I sooooo cannot wait !! I'm sooo ready to hold my princess and for…

@jeanetta25 did you have a C-section with your first

do you have to have a csection ?? I would day don't do it if you don't have too ... I had a csection 3 years ago 12/24 and I been in so much ever since bleeding from my cut critical pain and I see doctors every week and had to have 2 surgerys on my cut and still have to have another ... but I hope you don't have to go. through that

Yes I can't deliver vag my pelvic is too small . I tried for 3 hrs with my son and couldn't do anything he was only 5 pounds 13 ounces . And that was at 39 weeks . She's 5 pounds already so they not gone even have me try again . And I failed the shoulder test anyway they said I can't ouch out over 3 pound

@cassieleighx33,

My son is 7 now and I haven't had any problems with my incision except when I first had it because I tore half of it doing too much but besides that it just took a long time to heal which was brutal . So I'm not happy about having another one but I can't do vag so I have no choice . Which is why this is my last child I can't keep having c-sections specially with high risk pregnancies cause my health. @ayden_mommy,

that doesnt sound normal @ayden_mommy, did they do something wrong ? thats crazyyy that your going through all that and went through all that did it get infected or something that caused all the bleeding and pain ? my doctor told me this time will be harder recovering than last as well as the surgeon i met last week whos going to do it . cause they said the more you have the riskier it is . if she wasnt already 5 pounds and i didnt fail the shoulder test they let me try vag but shes too big already so i cant . like i told the other woman on here my son was 5 pounds and i pushed for 3 hrs until he became indistress and i passed out . shes 5 pounds now they said shell be at least 6 and i cant push anything over 3 .

@jeanetta25 that's good that you havnt had any complications ... no its not normal at all they don't really know what's causing me pain and why it was bleeding ... the first surgery they repaired some stitches and removed adhesions on my abdomal wall... it has ruined my life I can't work anymore I can't play with my son that often or go places without being in pain ... and when I'm in pain I can't even move ... I see doctors every week and have been for the last year smh .. omg that's not good and wow I'm sorry that really sucks I hope everything goes smooth and well for you hun

oh my lord thats awful they had to screw up somewhere ive heard of people having bad reactions but what your going through is horrid have they questioned the surgeons who did it i mean its hard to believe that everything went well but your going through all this !! what do they do when you go weekly ? @ayden_mommy,

@jeanetta25 yes it sucks ! I wish I never had a csection they keep telling me I had to becuase I only dilated 3cm but I was only in labor for 14 hrs ... they just wanted me out becuase it Christmas eve ... yes the surgeon messed up somewhere and I think the doctors and surgeon I see now is covering it up for her ... I go and talk to spealist about what happened they try and diagnose me and send me to other doctors and I get test and ultra sounds dine and all of this r tra stupid carp that don't even help me ..

wow im so sorry that makes me think because of the holiday and i KNOW no surgeon likes to have perform on a holiday !! that they rushed it instead of taking there time and somewhere through the process a mistake was made !! and shit like that dont need to be covered she needs to be punished in someway because what your going through is not from an normal c-section specially since its been so long !! i bet if you had money like a rich person had a good lawyer and through your weight around youd find out what happend !! man i really feel for you !! have you thought about talking to an attorney or someone ? @ayden_mommy,

@jeanetta25 yea that's what I think happened ... in quite sure that's what happened becuase itcdoeant make any sense to me like you said they rushed me and wanted to get him becuase the holiday smh . but that's what you get paid for ..... Lmao you so dam right !!!!! if I was rich I would have all of the doctors and the surgeon who worked on me fired no license to practice anymore ! ... I sure would find out ... I hate being poor lol the things money can get you .. I will never now what happened or what really went wrong that day and that sucks becuase its ruining my life and I am suffering from her mistake . I did have a lawyer and at first he said it was a big case and they had to mess up I even showed him how my cut would bleed... when I had my surgery Oct 10th they basically said they couldn't find nothing and removed adhesions and fix stitches whichcisnt enough for him but he also agreed that it didn't sound right but it was nothing he could do . ..

wow thats so fucked up damn girl im sorry !! was you alone during the surgery ?

@jeanetta25 yea its very fucked up ... I hate it so much but o can't do nothing about it .

no my fiance was with me but he couldn't be in the room . He was a big help after the surgery they didn't even let me stay in the hospital I went home a few hours later and he stayed home from 3 weeks and did everything me I couldn't even go to the bathroom or nothing he did it all ..

whattt ??? you can have 1 person back there with you !! and your suppose stay in the hospital for a few days reg birth is 3 days c-section is 4/5 days . you have to stay in recovery room after c-section for at least an hr so they can make sure you have no problems then like i said up to your room where you will stay for a few days !! ive neverrrr heard of anyone leaving the same day no matter what type of birth or not being able to have someone with you thats crazy !! they did what they wanted to do !! did you tell your doc or the attorney that ? or you didnt know that thats soooo not how they was suppose to do you . where do you live ?

honestly the surgery could have went fine but because you didnt get proper treatment after which meds and round the clock monitoring of your incision thats where the problem could have came from !! thats sooo foul girl when i go back to the docs ima ask my doc can they do that cause im telling you they cant !!