I swear I didn't think it was a big deal. I love my bf and we've been through so much b.s. and we've been together for 2 1/2 years. I have almost given up sometimes let me explain.

Rant: his mom is homeless by choice she's refuses to work and knows it's winter time and she watches the weather like a hawk and every time it's cold she wants to "stay the night" with us. we both have agreed she's not living with us she wants to stay a night fine but only one night last time we let her stayed with us one night she turned it into a whole weekend. she doesn't bathe she smokes pot and cigs which idc as long as it's away from me and my daughter I'm highly sensitive to smoke and my daughter doesn't need to be around smoke anyways. when she stays with us she doesn't bathe or even wash her hands after going to the bathroom she'll leave dirty dishes all over and she won't clean up after herself and won't even say thank you to me for cleaning up after her all the time when she's over here.

anyways we know this married couple on the verge of divorce they lost their apartment and we let them stay with us for a week not just the married couple but their daughter(shes 3 and autistic)and the wife's brother stayed in our two bedroom apartment. the husband was my old line lead when I was working he's super sweet and really helpful when he stayed with us. they got moved into a hotel and like i said are on the verge of a divorce he's sleeping in a car its suppose to be 3 degrees tonight. he's actually trying to get them into an apartment but his wife decided she didn't love him like she use to and she's talking to an ex. hes torn apart theyve been together 7 years total. now the problem is I was gonna let the husband stay here instead of the car tonight and he would be gone by the time I got up for the day. but when I mention it to my bf he's like why would you let him stay but not my mom? I'm so sick of arguing about his damn mom I really am tired of she's lied straight to his face and used him and he knows it. I get that she's his mom but she's never been a mom to him he was in and out of foster care his best friend's parents are more of parents to him than his own. I'm so done with his damn mother I really am she's perfectly capable of working she just doesn't want to she wants someone to take care of her and no one will because she's nasty and won't bathe and she's one that will go to a job interview and not take the job if she's offered it she only applied so she can show proof she's "trying" so she can get back into the shelter. shes was trying to get our apartment when we move out but she won't pay the bills she just wanted a roof over her head. and our landlord has been amazing with us and completely understanding with us I'm not going to fuck my landlord like that when she's been so good to us.