@jaydensmommy2016, my ex said the same thing that he doesn't need help because nobody could help him better than himself and everybody there doesn't know what he's going through because they've never gone through it them self... unfortunately it's one of those things I guess they have to figure out on their own. It took my ex losing me and our daughter for him to start to open his eyes (it's been almost 4 months now that's he's been gone)

@nicolerawrr I admit it hard staying clean & I've talk 2 him many times about going 2 NA but in his eyes NA is 4 weak ppl

@jaydensmommy2016, that's good I'm glad you were able to quit maybe he's having a harder time than you :/ I've been there I almost relapsed myself shortly after having my daughter because my PP got so bad once I stopped breast feeding :/

@nicolerawrr my baby daddy and I use to do drugs we quit once we found out I was pregnant

It could be worse, my now ex started drinking and that wasn't enough so he turned to drugs :/ of course once he started that I lost him all together

Have you tried to find the root of the drinking, like why he's drinking so much?

mines the same.
hes an alcoholic.
when i try to talk to him he either ignores me and answers like a smart ass and we end fighting pretty bad.
i got tired of it. so now if he pisses me of i give him the silent treatment. and i dont cook or clean for him. it takes him like a week to apologize but hes slowly gotten better😑