so my baby's father is seeing some girl and doesn't want her to know about me or our little…

fuck that. he should be proud to be a dad

girl I told him not every man gets this opportunity..it's a blessing..but he all of a sudden doesn't want anyone to know..he wants to hide us..i told him that it doesn't work like that but he isn't budging..i know I have to move on with jst me and my little one but it hurts being told to hide ourselves

The same thing happened with me. My baby's father and I were never technically labeled as being together, but everything else was as if we were. He just wanted to keep saying he was single. He doesn't tell his friends about me or our baby. It hurts I know. But honestly it's better not to have him around and try not to worry about him. A guy like that is honestly not worth all the tears and worrying. I learned that until now and thanks to my baby. Took me 8 months to finally see that, your baby will help you get over it 💕 I wish you the best.

Why worry over someone who wants to hide you and your baby? To me it's unbelievable and it takes someone who really doesn't care to come to that point :( that's why I don't bother with worrying about my baby's father.

@moonslugg thanx hun..I know I'm gonna have to face it sooner or later..like I said it's our first on both ends and I'm already doing everything on my own and that scares me..he made promises to the little one before her that he would be there and now it's like he never said anything..jst the thought of this baby is making me feel better cuz I know I'm gonna do my best for my little nugget ❤

You're welcome ! It's my first on both our ends as well! I've also been doing everything on my own since day one and it's hard and lonely at times. But it shows that you're Being strong for your little one since the start and your little one will only make you stronger. A baby puts everything in perspective and brings out the best in some people and unfortunately the worst as well. In our cases, it brought out the worst for our babies fathers :( and yes you will do the best :) trust me when you feel your baby move for the first time and when you get to see that little baby move on the ultrasound your love and strength will only get stronger ❤️

@moonslugg @beebaby I'm gonna do what's best for me and my child..even if that means that he won't be around..we dnt need all this degrading nonsense

Exactly !

@kimgonzalez27, maybe it's the same guy? Lol jk. Exactly I agree. Even if I feel like he won't regret it but whatever it's me and my baby in the end :) we have to be strong for our babies and having a guy who doesn't care really isn't the best for us and our babies. We don't need them and their negativity!!

She'll find out soon enough

Omg he sounds exactly like my daughters father! He says he cares and is interested but doesn't do anything to show it. I'm not going to wait for him to become interested or when it becomes convenient for him. We will be great mothers, this I'm sure of. I'm glad we got to talk! Knowing that someone else is going through the same thing and understands helps a lot. It's uplifting to see that it's possible to go through it :) thank you I wish you the best!! We'll keep in touch! If you ever need to vent I'm here for you 😊❤️ @kimgonzalez27,

My baby's father is 26 and Chilean, knowing him, he might have other girls pregnant 🙄 for all I know. These guys 😣 thank you 😊 prayers your way ❤️🌷❤️💕@kimgonzalez27,

Of course we can!! 😊❤️🌷@kimgonzalez27,