My inlaws sure know how to get on my nerves! My father in law works in the same company as my husband and gets paid way…

My inlaws sure know how to get on my nerves! My father in law works in the same company as my husband and gets paid way more and he doesn't have any food at his place? And us asking my husband that has a family to take care of for help? Like no! He just bought his daughter the iPhone 7 cash and that's why he is broke.. him and my mother in law are always broke! Always asking for money like they are grown adults why can't they take care of themselves!