moms I seriously do not know what to do , my husband has been on vacation from work since Christmas he hasn't got even lifted a finger to help me I even have to ask him to watch mine and his own child just so I can take a shower sometimes we live with his family but all his family went on vacation recently been gone for about a week and I've cleaned myself watched the kids fed them him and his brother washed the dished every night an last night I asked him to wash them and he said he would I ended up doing them this morning because he never did them me and his brother have been taking their dog out feeding him and my husband has not once helped with the dog either he finally helped clean today and it was only because his parents are coming back home we got into a fight because I was cooking dinner and my son was screaming and he was just sitting there on his phone didn't pick him up so I finally told him to bring him in the kitchen with me he started yelling at him and my son started hysterically crying and he continued to yell at him so I went on the defensive and he said you yell at him and I was like I do not yell at him when he is hysterically crying like that and I picked him up and he started yelling at me and I yelled back and said you never do anything to help me with him anyway and he got pissed I've tried talking about it to him but he has an excuse for everything I do not know what to do anymore to get through to him I take care of my son and his while his son is here and he does not help me, he works nights when he does work and sleeps all day even on his days off I am starting online school tomorrow and its going to be exhausting
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I know he would never do that , but I do know something needs to give we probably do need counseling that would help a lot because me trying to talk to him about it he just goes on the defense even when I'm being calm and just trying to tell him how I feel he just gets mad @brandie69.br.br
im sorry but tat does not sound like a very gd relationship either he needs to get consuling or some thing BC trust me it only gets worse my ex husband locked me n my kids n the house for weeks even months at a time
I just want him to understand how exhausting it is to do this by myself , especially living with his family who I am constantly picking up after also, and how I moved in with his family after he told ke he had a definite job lined up and we would have our own place soon which was a lie its hard for me. @mamamei
I'm sorry mama. Men suck sometimes ! I consistently have to ask mine to help ! He won't just do it on his own .. and even when I do ask .. only half the time he'll actually help me . Ugh 😑
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