My husband suck so much right now he just now is telling me he did a load of whites and it almost…

My husband suck so much right now he just now is telling me he did a load of whites and it almost done. This is after I told him to tell me when he had whites because i need to wash my pillow cover he told me he cant wash that big pillow i yell at him saying it a cover and it comes off he said do it with more whites I don't have any that why i told you to tell me when you need to do them ugh men they don't listen!!!