it feels good when your S/O notices that you look slimmer then before you got pregnant. without him having any idea that that is what you want. (well for me it does) I want to get back to my regular weight from before we got together (135 now weighting 209 before I got pregnant i was 215 and when i had Rosalinda i was 235 ) i know i got a long ways to go but still it made me feel good.