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Please no judgment.. I'm looking for actual help and advice... I'm 17 , I'm a senior in high school.…

Please no judgment.. I'm looking for actual help and advice...

I'm 17 , I'm a senior in high school. I have a 6 month old son and he will be a year exactly when I graduate. I go to school from 8 AM-12PM . I do not , do not trust day cares. My son currently stays with his father 5 days a week, Mon-Fri. I have him Fri-Sunday... Basically he is 19 and he has no car, permit, license, etc. we live about 35 minutes apart and he can't get him back here everyday so that's how it has to be..I have nobody that would watch him for me here. My child's father also has no job , he claims he's looking and he has people to watch our son while he would work, because he did have a job and got fired.. I have been looking and looking and looking for jobs and applying everywhere with no luck..

I'm not eligible for WIC because I'm 17 and when I went there they said they would take my parents income in and I'm not eligible and my child's father won't apply. His mother has been providing, and hos family has never liked me , they dont even allow me in their house at all not even to use the bathroom ever. my mother gave up on my son and I and I have nobody helping me anymore and my mother wants nothing to do with us..

Anyway, my parents are planning on moving to GA. I live in NJ, if they do that at 18 I will be homeless with my son and I don't know what to do. I have nobody and I'm so stressed out. What do I do...

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dashtikalin

Tara18

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (7 нед.)

Do you know if there are any pregnancy crisis centers in your area? Even though you're not pregnant anymore, they would probably LOVE to help you with whatever you need.

I hope everything works out!

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angelao777

Angela

Мама троих детей

See if you can find a live in nanny position, many people need overnight childcare and will provide room and board in exchange for childcare. Then you can have your son with you and somewhere to stay. My highschool in PA had a daycare for teen moms in the school where you had classes essentially with your child close-by. I think more schools need to provide that.

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jessyleigh

Jessica

Мама сына (1 год)

I think live in nanny is a great idea. Ik a ton around here and ik they welcome the persons kids as well.

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deleted-user

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that sounds like a great idea. check care.com

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