Omg I was having the worst BH while cooking my stomach was hard as a rock on and off the whole time…

Wish my husband felt the same I have to nearly be in tears for him to even lift a finger in the kitchen I just get a pat on the back lol

Oh he just recently started telling me to chill out, he wasn't always this generous prior to my 30 week mark llh he use to say aint that much sleep in the world, or he would make a schedule for us to take take turns cooking and cleaning which didn't work because I was drained but now he's like okay you're having her soon take it easy. @darshay012

@tookie-birdsmom, not even close mine says we're going to cook but somehow he ends up on the couch

Does he ever cook? @darshay012

@tookie-birdsmom, maybe eggs in the morning he's good for everything else though

Oh lawd who's going to cook when the baby gets here? I know yall are going to be tired of eating out at some point. My husband will cook mainly on the weekends when he's not tired from work he doesn't cook a lot either. Maybe he'll come around, my mil told me to stay off of my feet too and she made him do stuff for me and that kind of stuck with him maybe that will work for your husband too @darshay012

@tookie-birdsmom, well we live with some of his family and they all pretty much rely on me or grandma to cook but they are from here and I eat different things so if I don't cook I'll be eating take out alone

Ugh that sucks, that's a lot of pressure on you being pregnant, I know there are a lot of days you won't feel like standing in that kitchen and the further along you get the harder it will be smh I would ask him to be a little more understanding of that until the baby gets here and you're all healed up @darshay012

@tookie-birdsmom, it'll probably get brought we're trying to better ourselves as a couple in the new year anyway

That's good every effort counts and I'm not super religious but prayer helps too carrying a child requires a lot of compromise @darshay012 yall will be fine

@tookie-birdsmom, He's starting to get the hang of that but it still hasn't fully got to him that a child is coming he still screams from excitement when the baby kicks and yes prayer is a must during this time