Ok so I need some help for moms, I have three kids right now and one more on the way and I have been thinking a lot…
Ok so I need some help for moms, I have three kids right now and one more on the way and I have been thinking a lot about getting my tubes tied. I know for sure I don't want to have anymore babies, but I have been going back and fourth in my head with it. Should I tie them or just take birth control. In the beginning of this pregnancy I was set on getting them tied but as I get closer to my due date my mind is getting pulled back and fourth do I or do I not. So if anyone has tied their tubes can you help on if you are happy with your decision or not?
Thanks moms 😁
Tabitha Silva·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I'm in the same boat 🚣
Anna·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
😔 it's a hard decision. I watch my mom everyday for the past 12 years sad because she wish she didn't do it because she want to try for a boy. She had me at the age 20 and my two little sisters at the age 40 so she was like I'm done but as time went on she wanted to try for a boy :( now me I have two of each so I'm happy plus by the time I have baby fever again I will be in my late 30s and honestly I just want to enjoy my kids and start enjoying my life with my husband. I mean I enjoy my life now with my kids a lot but as you start to get older you know you're running out of time. So I want to focus on my kids growing up and my marriage. I'm not sure if that makes sense lol
Anna·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@mommi2allgirls3,
Tabitha Silva·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
That's exactly why I say I'm done I wanna enjoy life now n just watch them grow plus every pregnancy of mine gets more n more high risk it's scary.! I have 2 girls n a girls coming n e day now but I'm content not having a boy but my hubs says oh I don't want n e more but incase u shouldn't do it so now I'm confused about it. @mommy_of_04,
Anna·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Awe that's the worse when you get confused because it's not only you you think about but you think about the one you're with. And I know exactly how you feel with the high risk pregnancy because all of mine have been high risk too. Ugh 😑 such a hard decision to make 😔 good luck on you decision you're due any time so I know you're stressing out on what to do.
@mommi2allgirls3,
Tabitha Silva·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@mommy_of_04, I am n thank u good luck to you as well ❤🙏🏼
Anna·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@mommyofsoontob3, I will be almost 32 by the time I have this little one. I've also thought about the future. If my husband and I were to split and divorce by the time I find someone if I ever do I will probably be in my 40 or older. I mean anything can happen were we divorce even today but if you think of it I'm still pregnant and by the time I have baby fever I will probably be in my 40s lol. It's just a hard decision :( thank you for your advice. I still have time to think about what I want to do I just hope I don't make a mistake and regret whatever decision I make.
@mommi2allgirls3, thank you!!! :)