@jacey3, it's just the fact that you know you're being judged. That's what annoys me

that's what I chose to do and Dr kept telling me, "there are birth control we can get you. it won't interfere." she just didn't understand that I want no part of it. anytime I've gone in for a check up after birth it's the same question like 20 times. do what you want to do. your Dr has to respect your wishes.