if you get to have a baby shower be thankful! I didn't. Not even when I was promised one from my family and my spouse's. I didn't get either for my son. I've had to collect and bargan clothes and diapers and things for my son all on my own! it would have been nice to have family that cared!!!
I don't have photos either @kedrababy
I have everything I need. I wasn't saying this to sound entitled to a shower or that I needed one. It just would have been nice to have family show they care for once. It would also be nice to hear people being thankful for getting one rather than complaining that they did. Shit. Be thankful you have family that cares enough to put out the effort.
@firemanswife @nwhite0823 @babyleon @mell_babie12 @missjess
I feel you! my own family didn't make me one... my MIL had a small one for us & we didn't get much... I had to get on Facebook on a group that gives away free things... thanks to that or my son wouldn't have much & not much help from my baby's dad... who quit his job weeks before my son was born 😒... you'll be ok!
i threw myself one on a low budget. no one was gonna throw one for me so I did it myself!
Depending on where you live I have baby boy clothes never worn or only worn a couple times or used clothes for sale.
i never depend on baby showers. i didn't have one for my first two kids. I always bought what I needed soon as i found out the sex and I know how my family was lol... A good friend of mines throw one for us and out of all the ppl that RSVP now where near did that amount of ppl show up. But once again we had already bought what we need if we got double we returned what we bought.
I agree with the ladies above tho. I started planning my shower myself and everyone else just fell into life. & even ppl who claimed they would help, didn't