How do y'all feel about your man and friend (female) talking on a regular basis ? I personally don't…

Your man may be loyal but she is not especially if she was your friend and met him through you. If they where long term friends before your relationship and it is just casual conversation I wouldn't see a problem. But the fact she hides it is shady. And may mean she has intentions to be more then friends.

Also she tends to bring him up a lot when tlking to me. I just find it a little odd idk :/ I stopped telling her things like when me and him argue. Cause I feel like maybe she tlks to him when she knows we're in a fight. @mooneyynk,

You're right @mrs.n2014, he's not secretive about it at all

your friend is the one that sounds shady. I agree with @beebaby my husband and I are the same. He doesnt talk to females especially MY friends. Just like I dont talk to his friends either i think that is kinda weird.

exactly

Honestly, you're intitled to having boundaries in a relationship and for happiness each participatian in that relationship should respect that. Im pretty sure thr conversations were innocent but you should have a talk not only with your boyfriend but your friend as well. Any real friend will respect another couples boundaries. Overall, I don't care what the issue is the fact of the matter is you have a right to boundaries and shes crossing one of yours. Dont allow this because you'll just keep getting upset and it can jeopardize not only your friendship with her but put a strain into your relationship with your love as well!❤

Right like I'm telling her something she already happens to know 😯 hmmmm @beebaby,

Thank you @duedatediaries

If my friend talked to my man behind my back all the time of get rid of that bitch! It'd be different if they were friends prior to you dating but they aren't. So she has no business trying to be close to him like that.

My husband and I have boundaries. We do NOT text the opposite sex unless we are beside each other or the other knows about it first and we do share passwords, passcode, etc. no secrets! We don't even text for no reason either. If he has a question for a female he asks me to message her. Vise versa. I've been in this place before and I don't want to induce panic but don't trust her just yet. She's bringing him up a lot for some reason. I'd find out what's in their phones if possible. Don't panic or cause an argument but don't trust yet. Trust me when I say conversations like that can lead to more serious things. Thankfully your husband is honest about it but make sure he's not just testing u to see how you'd react to it first. If she's your friend she'll respect your boundaries.

Yea my husband and friends know better than that, she would get cut off at least your man is letting you know she has been reaching out to him behind your back, she has to go.

@nani720 I definitely wouldn't trust that girl an would let her know to stop texting your man cause you don't feel comfortable with it an cutt that bitch off..an then let your man know to do the same not text her or anything unless he goes through you first friends before or after our doesn't matter when you in a relationship or especially having a kid by that person you should definitely have that boundary I'm place....that just sounds so fishy and weird I wouldn't trust none of them until you cut that off...my man knows better than that he would even feel weird texting one of my friends or doing some shit like that an as a woman I would never do that to my friend or husband honestltyyyy

Trueeee , thanks !! And I've officially cut that little game. Lol @adrien5.29,

@nani720 Yes good for you ..just make sure it's cut off foreallll 👊

👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼 got it ! @adrien5.29,