Then when I talk about how I'm excited for JJ's first Christmas and that I got him so much stuff, my…

Then when I talk about how I'm excited for JJ's first Christmas and that I got him so much stuff, my stepmom shoots it down like everything else with "he isn't going to remember it or care" guess what?! I will remember it! It will be special to me! Wether he remembers it in 20 years is irrelevant, he isn't stupid he knows what's going on and will have a blast unwrapping presents and probably playing with his new toys. I'm his mother, this is our life.