It took me 3 months of this to figure out why I am constantly getting infections and me and my hubby haven't been able…

It took me 3 months of this to figure out why I am constantly getting infections and me and my hubby haven't been able to make love. I decided to look up the birth control I have taken since my miscarriage in September because all this started right after, and its a side effect. As well as having my period every other week. I told my hubby I need to stop taking it. :( I just can't win. Never will I take this birth control again. Do any of you moms have tricare and get birth control. What do you recommend.