I have been thinking a lot. And I find it upsetting that no matter how many babies I shall have I…

same here my first was emergency c-section after 3hrs of pushing cause i couldnt get my son out . he was born a tiny 5 pounds. im on my second pregnancy now due in 4 weeks and im having a planned c-section i had a test done to see if im able to push this time and i failed again . they said my body is not made to push out a baby its no room which is why i couldnt get my son out even though he was tiny. so every birth has to be an c-section rather i want to or not .

@jeanetta25 sorry to hear that. My son I pushed for 2 hours and his head was showing (literally the top of his head was out) and had to rush me back for emergency c-section , push him back inside me and then take him out. Drs at the hospital couldn't tell me why I couldn't keep pushing except the fact they almost lost the 2 of us while I was pushing. Come to find out at my 6 week check up with ob that my pelvis is too flat and narrow that I will never be able to have one naturally no matter how hard I try.

yea same exact thing and it sucks cause its nothing they can do about it our bodies was just not created to do it . i didnt mind having one in the moment cause i was exhausted and my son heart rate was dropping during every push . but this time i wanted to try it cause i wanted to do a water birth just to be told that since im high risk i cant do water births then to find out shortly after i still cant push period . i just try and look at it like at least we can conceive because its many people who cant so be greatful that were still able to bare children !! @kyntonsmommy,

@jeanetta25 I agree. It does suck and I was told at the age of 14 that there was a 75% chance I would miscarry with any pregnancy due to my uterus being flipped the wrong way but I was blessed with my first baby may 3rd this year. Got pregnant shortly after and lost the baby at 6 weeks. It hurt really bad and still does but I know my body wasn't ready and we can try again when we are ready.

But I am glad to know I can carry a baby, I love the feeling

awee im so sorry !! i do agree i think it was just to early they do say losing a baby is common when getting pregnant shortly after just giving birth . im sure when you guys are ready to try again it will work out just fine !! 😊

@kyntonsmommy, I'm exactly the same way 😔 my pelvis is inverted. The bones literally curve in, and I can't fit any baby through my pelvis unfortunately. I was in 84 hours of labor with my son before they did a csection because he wasn't coming, then they saw why once I was cut open 😩