I just need to vent.... :( ...... my SO acts like everything I do is wrong. no the kitchens not spotless. no the house…
I just need to vent.... :( ...... my SO acts like everything I do is wrong. no the kitchens not spotless. no the house is clean. I have not even a 2 week old baby girl. I have to tend to. I haven't been home all day. I went to eat tonight with my family (he was at work) and when I come home I go to kiss him and he said I'm busy ( he's washing dishes). no one else is gonna do it so I have to. I'm so tired of it. I don't understand why everything I do is wrong. all I'm tryin to do is adjust to have a baby.
Monica Heredia·
Мама двоих (младенец)
🙏Prayers
Bianca·
Мама дочки-младенца
thank you @mamiof2ds
Monica Heredia·
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Your Welcome @bianca.ladawn
Victoria Shreiner·
Мама сына-младенца
You're doing nothing wrong. You're doing your job the best you can. I'm sure he doesn't do everything perfectly at work. It sounds like you could use some help with your little ones. It won't kill him. And you can tell him I said that too!
Bianca·
Мама дочки-младенца
@babyshreiner16 I only have my one little girl. my other was a miscarriage but my mom agrees with you. it's hard taken care of babies especially if you're a first time mom
Victoria Shreiner·
Мама сына-младенца
I hear you @bianca.ladawn, I had my son 11 weeks ago and it's not easy being a stay at home mom. My husband thought I did nothing but watch tv and play with our son. I woke up 2 weeks after being exhausted BF and changing diapers through the night and realized he may go to work but my job doesn't stop. I barely showered or ate. So I made him do more to help. He now gives our son a bath, we alternate with bedtime feeds and night time feeds, he does help with chores, and he shares more responsibility with the baby's needs. Put your foot down now to remind him that 1. Your job doesn't stop 2. You are feeling unappreciated and 3. His daughter needs to know her father was being more than a provider but an actual father and supportive husband to her mother.
Bianca·
Мама дочки-младенца
@babyshreiner16 that's my problem is I won't stand up to him. I always end up cryin. and to make things worse... tmi.... but I have blister down there. so my stitches and stuff has healed but now I have blisters and it hurts to move. but it's like I do nothin all day when in reality I take care of our daughter. I am always the one that gets up at night with her. he doesn't even off to help.