I want my baby's father. Like we aren't together and were friends but then I found out I was…

Maybe propose him to give it a chance for the baby . No one knows if it ends up working out for you guys being together.

@astridoll he makes it clear that this won't make us have a relationship. like he is pretty adamant.

I just want him physically like I make up bullshit excuses to meet. I've only seen him like 3 times since I found out

I'm seeing him later on today

Wow.. well .. let things flow... like, be with him without commandment and always being nice and sweet at him. Include him in all the baby's stuff for whenever he wants to participate . Maybe the time makes things change. Even more with the new baby's experience you both are about to live. 🙂. After all, you have nothing to lose.

@astridoll I suppose you're right, he works all the time and sleeps so I don't think he can make it to any appointments I told him I would show pictures when we would meet and such...it's just crazy...I haven't told my family and he hasn't either I'm 20 he is 27

Do not put any pressure on him today men are basic .. they think we're proposing them to marry if we invite them to dinner. 😄. That I want to spend some time with you doesn't mean I love you or anything 😂.

@astridoll so pushy isn't good? I'm so persistent by nature hahaha. Plus I'm a Scorpio we want what we wanna have. It's just odd. I mean a sexual relationship between me and him is beneficial for both. I refuse to have sex with another man while pregnant with his child. plus I'm not the hottest on the market if guys knew I am pregnant.

I mean in any job you can ask for an specific day off if you do it in advance . You can tell him a month in advance: hey, the baby's appointment is on the X of this month, if you want ask for the day at work so you can hear its heart beat. Let me know if you're going or not 🙂.

Something like that 😄

No listen girl let's go to inbox lol

If he doesn't want to be with you then why give him that part of you. Why not find someone who is willing to give you it all and take care of your child as well

@beebaby I don't want to be with another guy while carrying his child. I feel like I should only be intimate with the father. I know it's not a rule but it creeps me out not to

So he doesn't have to be faithful to you but you are gonna be faithful to him while your not with him. I'm not say you need to sleep with another man while pregnant but when you don't need to give yourself to someone who has no plan of being with you in the future. You can use this time to.get to know and build with someone who wants you and your child. No waste it on a dude that leaves you while pregnant. He deserves nothing but to take care of his responsibility in my book. but that is just me.

@beebaby maybe you're right but that's just my moral...I'm not gonna sleep with anyone but the father and I only want him sexually. I don't want to be with him.

Okay