I am a really easy person to get along with but when I am making the whole Christmas dinner and my…

I am a really easy person to get along with but when I am making the whole Christmas dinner and my mil said she would be here around noon to watch my little one and then you never show up and finally at 2:30 you say oh I had to turn around because of the roads.. my anxiety gets so high and I just want to cancel the damn thing.. also I now have to take my son out in the "bad roads" to grab a few things( the roads are not even bad any more).. well today's Christmas seems just effing fun already 😡